Goal:
USD $40,000
Raised:
USD $8,672
Campaign funds will be received by Tiffany Ross
Tiffany was admitted to the ER on Jan 10th due to breathing concerns after having the flu. There she and Robert found she was suffering from double pneumonia, both lungs infected, as well as being in DKA due to her blood sugars. She was admitted to the ICU. She was still very labored breathing and put on a ventilator the next day. Besides flu and pneumonia she had a staff infection in her blood. For a couple of days it seemed like she was recovering, but things go worse. She had to start dialysis, and a week after admittance, she was moved to Medical City Plano so she could be put on an ECMO machine, it would oxygenate her blood so her lungs could rest and heal. She was also given a tracheotomy so she wouldn't have to be intubated on the vent. The next week they woke her up from sedation and she was slow to respond. A CT scan of her head found she had suffered a stroke, though before or after the start of this wasn't clear. Even after she was off the sedation and awake, she wasn't responsive in her body. A neuro consult discovered she had likely suffered AIDP, perhaps Guillain-Barré syndrome or something similiar. She is slowly recovering from that, being able to move more of her body and have more strength in her muscles as the days have passed, but its still a slow process. She still has the trach in and isn't able to speak, drink, or eat, though is starting to slowly improve on the speech tests. From here, she is headed to a long term care facility as she's no longer in acute danger, just working on getting back to the vibrant woman she was before.
After the 2023/2024 house repair disaster, with the insurance company dragging their feet and drawing out the length we were outside of the home, having to pay for asbestos abatement, relocating us at the very last minute from an AirBNB to 2 hotel suites with 5 pets in tow and having to pay for storage the whole time, the Ross family was tapped out and just starting to recover, but not prepared for starting 2025 with a huge medical emergency with long term recovery needs.
Wishing you a continued recovery & healing. 🙏🙏🙏
Finally found the link again on Instapundit. Get well, Tiffany!
Good wishes for a full recovery.
Sarah Hoyt sent me.
I pray you get well soon.
Good bless you.
I wish I had more to give but it's been a rough couple of years.
Tiffany and family - May you know God's comfort and healing. :-)
Glad you're home and getting better quickly! :)
April 17th, 2025
Good afternoon, friends and family!! Today's update comes from Tiffany herself --
January 10th to April 9th. Almost three months have passed since I went to the ER. I never would have imagined what lay before me when I felt the need to go to the ER. It’s the first time I’ve had to go to the ER in my life. I don’t remember much of that time. I didn’t wake up to reality for a couple of weeks. And then, I couldn’t believe how much my life had changed.
Thankfully, I had so many people reaching out with prayers and simply reaching out to me to tell me they were so worried about me. My publishing and writing groups were primary among them! I was so amused that they sent someone to knock on my door before they knew I was in the hospital.
Since then, I’ve grown progressively stronger and am on the path to return to my life as it was as an able-bodied person. My struggles aren’t entirely over, but it’s getting there! Getting out of the hospitals and then rehab has been wonderful. Not without its challenges, but wonderful by the fact I’m at home.
Thanks to everyone who has extended their help in whatever way. I’ve felt it. Insurance has paid a great deal of the bills, but some things they’re not covering and/or are passing on the bill to us. I just discovered a few new bills in my phone messages of all places. So much easier when they mail them to me. In any case, we’re getting by and it’s in thanks to all the caring people in our lives!
March 28th, 2025
Today was a great day!! Tiffany Ross found out a little after noon that insurance had approved her rehab hospital, and the transfer would be happening later this afternoon/early evening. By 3:30 they were on site to pick her up, and relocate her to Flower Mound. From what everyone has said, it looks like rehab will be 7-10 days and then she'll be headed home.
She's in great spirits, happy for the move, and getting to build back her muscles in the more intensive PT and OT she'll be receiving here.
March 17th, 2025
Good evening, friends and family! Tiffany is still at the long term care facility. After coming off of the trach, she's had some issues with low blood pressure. There's been a few theories on the cause, but it hasn't fully been fixed yet. They've cut back on her lasix meds now that she's no longer showing swelling, hasn't had a dialysis in a couple weeks now, and her kidneys are performing well. As of today she's no longer being monitored for her oxygen sats, and is happy to have the pulsox off her finger.
My (Robert's) parents came into town for Spring Break and we spent the week doing things around the house for Tiff's return home. We now have a ramp on the front steps, several grab bars in the bathroom, and a better handrail for the back step. Got a couple other big projects done for her piece of mind as well. Now we just need Tiffany to come home to enjoy them!
March 3rd, 2025
Good morning to all the friends and family out there! This weekend saw Tiffany get her trach removed! She's very grateful to no longer have that attached in her neck, and has been breathing well on her own without it. On Thursday, her doctor let her know that he'd like to see her transferred to rehab soon, and it's possible that within 7-10 days of rehab she could be headed back home. Previously Tiffany has been keeping her expectations low, saying she'd be happy to be home by the end of April. I've kept hoping for sometime in March, while we missed Valentine's Day last month, we celebrate her birthday and our anniversary this month and it would be wonderful to have her home for at least one of them. After that news she realized that its looking more and more like I had the better estimate. Hopefully my next update is for the move to the rehab facility.
Once again, we are eternally grateful for all the support you have provided us with your donations as well as your thoughts and prayers!
February 19th, 2025
Good morning friends and family, and to all who have contributed in some way to Tiffany's care if you're not the latter you're now among the former! Tiff continues to make progress with her physical capabilities. We're seeing more motion and strength in her legs, and she's been able to be much more social online recently with better finger mobility and a loss of shakiness. She's also working on getting weened off of the trach so we can get that out. She's been happy to get back to normal meals and drinks, being able to enjoy food again. We've been told it's okay to bring in outside food, but that hasn't happened just yet. Though I got word this morning that her dialysis appointment for today was cancelled as her kidneys are looking better, so maybe if we're off the renal diet she can get a deserving treat!
She is very appreciate of all the love and support she has been shown and has been feeling it during her stay, it helps give her the strength to keep up her spirits and endure the challenges that have been put before her.
February 12th, 2025
Tiffany's been at the long term care facility for a week now. Things have been progressing well. Last week she could only tolerate the speaking valve in her trach for a few minutes, this week she's been leaving it in for hours. We're actually able to converse again, rather than me talking and her writing back. Today was a day of celebration, she passed her final swallow test this morning and got the nasal tube out. She got her first drink in a month, one she's been anticipating for a couple weeks, and has her first dinner tonight.
We also started receiving our first bills from the hospitals this week. It looks like the first stay, at the local hospital in Lewisville, is set to run us about $3500. No idea yet on what the weeks at Plano will run, or the ltc facility.
We are deeply appreciative of all that has been given for Tiffany! Both the monetary donations, as well as the prayers and well wishes on her recovery. We are eternally grateful for all the love and support that has been sent to our family.
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