Help Baby Thomas Cox come home

Goal:

 USD $50,000

Raised:

 USD $29,225

Campaign created by Veronica Perrington

Campaign funds will be received by David Cox

Help Baby Thomas Cox come home

God is so good!

Cathy and David Cox welcomed sweet Thomas on Thursday, April 9 at 11:16 PM. Thomas was baptized immediately and confirmed within days. God is so good!

His miraculous arrival through the intercession of Thomas VanderWoude (a father who heroically died saving his son with Trisomy 21 in a septic collapse accident) comes with many uncertainties for their family.

Thomas has a prolonged NICU stay, an abdominal surgery, and many upcoming tests. 

Thomas was diagnosed in the womb with Trisomy 13, also known as Patau Syndrome. It is a rare chromosomal disorder that has a very poor prognosis.... stillborn, or live for hours, days, or months. Less than 10% survive to a year. While these and other test results have not been confirmed since his birth, there are many long roads ahead. 

Cathy and David rely solely on their Catholic Handmade Rosary business to provide for their family. Their home business does not include standard health insurance so they are left to handle a substantial financial burden in addition to many back and forth trips to see Thomas as he heals. Additionally, this is their busy season during which they depend heavily on their business to carry them through the year, however, they are trying to stay present for sweet baby Thomas as well as their 4 other children. 

Any amount you can give to help their family would be a burden lifted. Thank you for being their Simon of Cyrene as they carry this heavy cross. 

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The Selvidge Family
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Marr Family
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Praying for you and your little one!

John Lilly
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We’re praying so hard for you guys! Miracles are possible.

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Butler family
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God bless your beautiful family.

Tom and Mary Kane
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Welcome to the world dear Thomas! May the love you give and the love you receive from this precious child bless your family now and always.

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Patti E
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Keeping Baby Thomas and all the family in my prayers.

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Anonymous Giver
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God is good.

Joan Gerke
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5 days ago

The rosary is so powerful, there are so many people that need assistance, I usually give to ones that draw me in or draw me back. As a faithful rosary follower, I often end up with broken rosaries due to fighting sleep while trying to finish my evening rosary. I will add baby Thomas to the mix of people who get the regular intention. God bless you all.

Anonymous Giver
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Praying for baby Thomas and your family

Anonymous Giver
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6 days ago

God bless you, THOMAS)! We don’t know you, but we love you as a member of our Christian family! God bless your mom and dad too! Prayers coming for you!

Anonymous Giver
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Praying without ceasing 🙏🏼

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Praying for you and your beautiful baby!

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Updates

Happy birthday! April 24, 2025

April 25th, 2025

Today we celebrate Thomas VanderWoude’s birthday and pray with and for Baby Francis and his family (baby Francis is in NICU at the same hospital and begging TVW for help). God is so good and will never be outdone in generosity!

Thomas is responding well to his mother’s milk and his future is miraculously positive! 

Please keep up your prayers for both boys and their sweet families.

Update coming soon!

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Easter Monday, April 21, 2025.

April 21st, 2025

"No Greater Love hath a man than to lay down his life for his friend." Jesus shared these words with His disciples shortly before His ultimate sacrifice. These words are included in the prayer asking Thomas VanderWoude for his intercession during Cathy's pregnancy with Thomas.

Those who knew Thomas VanderWoude would say he was happy in the background. He was such a sturdy foundation for others quietly working behind the scenes: "he didn’t worry about whether he was the most qualified — he just stepped in" (Dan VW). The following update is filled with quiet hope as Cathy and Dave await yet another round of test results. 


Update from dad (David):

He is Risen! Truly, He is Risen!

Good Friday, a third genetic test was initiated using a cheek swab and results should be back in ten days. The first two tests that used an umbilical cord blood sample returned with no detected abnormalities. Please use caution with this news and continue to pray for Thomas, all the little babies in the NICU, their families, and the medical staff that attends to them. 


Venerable Fulton Sheen's final Good Friday message spoke about how God communicates with us: "God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world." Please pray that all the families and staff in the NICU are roused to receive and strengthen in Faith.


Thomas's CPAP was removed on Holy Saturday. He responded well and is breathing on his own. Small doses of his mother's milk are administered through a baby-sized feeding tube placed and today Thomas will attempt bottle feeding! 


The way I see it Thomas is exceeding all earthly expectations.


Today, with the whole Church we celebrate Easter within the Octave and the quiet hopefulness in the final resurrection for all our departed loved ones and this day in a particular way for Pope Francis. May the perpetual light shine upon him and may his soul and the souls of all the faithfully departed rest in peace. 

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Holy Thursday

April 17th, 2025

"The only time our Lord asked the Apostles for anything was the night He went into agony. Not for activity did He plead but for an hour of companionship." (Bishop Fulton Sheen) This is the quote on the door to the Perpetual Adoration Chapel of our parish which is dedicated to Thomas VanderWoude. Thank you for your companionship as you pray for the The Cox Family in their hour of need. Your generous outpouring of support is staggering! Be assured, the Cox's are offering this burden for you and your intentions. 

Update from dad (David):
Thomas was extubated yesterday (4/16) around noon. As expected, it is difficult to breathe after extube, so they put a baby CPAP on him. They are keeping very close eye on him. Pain relief and extracting the secretions/gunk from tummy were main goals. The doctors administered some steroids to help reduce inflammation of trachea and bronchi. Thomas in prone position as this reduced pressure on lungs, as opposed to supine position.

I had the privilege and honor of saying almost every prayer known to the Mystical Body of Christ with Thomas's Godparents in the NICU room with their family via phone. They are an amazing family and it is evident that prayer and devotion is like exercise, one must keep doing it every day to get better. They seem to be at the triathlete level of prayer fitness. I hope to get there soon, but I am still at the level of one getting the tour of the gym after becoming a gym member. 

We prayed in English, Latin, and Aramaic. What a treasure that my son was able to hear, or at least feel the acoustics of the language of the Church AND the language that was spoken by Our Lord.

I know Thomas sensed this as well because during prayer, he looked right up at me and locked eyes for a while. 

Thomas is digesting nutrients well and passing gas post intestinal surgery. Which is a very good sign that the surgery was a success!  

In your generosity, please pray for another NICU baby's family at the same hospital: Baby Francis's family needs your prayers. 

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Extubated

April 16th, 2025

Thomas was extubated today. He is not handling it well and we are praying he does not need to be intubated again. 


From dad:

Breathing tube out.

CPAP on.

Getting gunk out of his lungs and throat.

Sounds normal.

Update #1

April 15th, 2025

Update from dad (David):

Surgery went well.

Able to remove appendix and a diverticulum. This is a good thing.

Got everything back in where it should be. Closed it up, gave him a cute little belly button, so the surgeon says . havent seen it yet.

He's back in his NICU room. I can go back in a few minutes.

Thanks be to God.

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