Hello my Name is Mark Nettling i am Rebbecca Nettlings husband...The reason i am asking for help is because my wife is very sick all started back in 2018 before covid started she had a small size hernia and she was less weight back then.. As the doctor's were giving pills and trying to help her sending her to Hamilton and blood test just a normal thing to do to figure out how to fix this hernia.. The family Doctor had her start the Bariatric in Hamilton completed it less then a year and the Bariatric had just snubbed her didn't return calls and said they could help her because of mental issues..Rebbecca had a hard life we choose to leave in the past but for some reason that's all they cared about they never wanted to help Rebbecca with the Bariatric and we thought it was a great start you see we were told they need to do the Bariatric first before the hernia it would be a lot easier to fix but since Hamilton has just left us in the dirt we went to London same thing the Hernia got bigger she had two cat scans and lots of other test to see how far this hernia was now today the hernia is at max size and now was told by the fourth surgeon that she would have to go forth CT scan and more test we are now looking at 2 more years of this and this will be 7 years after the fact...Tell me if this is malpractice in my opinion mean they should have fixed this when it first started.. She in the beginning was bleeding from the rectum and she was getting sick if i could take all the pictures to show how this was all started so you all get a picture of what i am saying the bowls are now out of the wall and parts of the bowls are in the hole that ripped open she is now faced the ultimate life decision to what to do about this or where to go now she has seen all 4 surgeons and all of them are waiting for what's next the bowls are going to twist and they warned us of this happening then it will be a emergency and this is not what we want...We don't have a vehicle and no reliable  transportation Family refuses to help us and i really feel alone i am afraid i am going to lose my wife and me and my children will have to remember her for the way she was i really wish i could do more but at some point you'll need to ask for help and this is something i want to do is to find other options maybe Rebbecca can get to the United States if anyone can help us i love to see my wife walk again and participate in life in general she is cooped up in the house she does have a powered wheelchair to help her but i really want to see more of Rebbecca Living not just Existing.. Thank you for taking the time to read and prayers as well Thank You.. One more thing i just want to add i am being Shunned by family and being told i am Lazy i am a Care Taker for Rebbecca because she is finding it hard just doing the simplest thing in life..I am not Lazy and would rather work then being home we only have One Check per month and that's it..